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Issmile | October 6th, 2008
In some moment of our life, we can’t deny that we admired someone else. Not the one we love right now. I said this because I have this experience. I love someone for 13 years, but in that same period I also adore someone else. Not only one, but more than that. I am definitely not a playboy. But this is not a story of that…
Obsession, can be define as liking someone for some criteria. As an example, girl who always been ignored by her family, will tend to find someone older who are nicer and caring as a replacement of fatherly image that she can’t get from her family. That’s why we can see some trouble teenagers will go out with older persons. Or, in other case.. in easy word.. in my case.. I can be categorized as nice people, caring and understandable. I always care about my friends despite their gender. In my school life, there is one moment where a girl become obsess with me. It’s not that she follow me everywhere I go. It just that she suddenly hate me whenever I spoke to other female friends. This is happen because, for one week before, I always talk to her about anything, making jokes and laughing together. When I suddenly less talking to her at the next week, she became mad at me. After asking with her other friend, I realize that she got a feeling for me. I never intend to seduce or whatever. That’s why we must always observe people around us and see their action toward us. It somehow can give you a bit of hint,s how people around you react on your actions and how you should react to them. …read full articles of "Obsession or Love?"
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Issmile | October 4th, 2008
Aidilfitri.. I saw many loves.. People gather with families, forgiving each other.. Talk about new stories or update some stories.. This cousin will married later in this year, or someone died in Ramadan.. certain stories that not been told to everybody.. Young people visiting the elder.. Talk about caring and loving topics. This is a love that people always see.. but can you call it love if…
1. You scold your child because they make mistakes which reflect to your image. You scold them very loud which also can be heard thousand miles away. Are you really love you child then? It is not LOVE! If you love you child you won’t scold them base on your anger, you scold them base on your future objective; “Raise a good child”. If they make mistake, scold them with reasons. Explain to them why mistake or behavior like that should not been done.
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Issmile | September 28th, 2008
This happen to everybody, only the different is either you succeed or not. Most people will fail on first love. Why is that? Because we tend to act immature, childish and unexpectable. We only thought of our love to them, but not how they love to us. As example, I like this girl so much, I have crush for her. I send her flowers everyday and put it on her desk. I am even not asking her opinion of that, I just go with my cowboy style. When she reacted to it, then I know, she not even like me. She said something harsh that hurted my feeling so deep which make me unable to see her face ever again.
It’s not coward, it’s understanding of human being when you feel you are annoyed to other people. If you have common sense, you won’t bother her with same method AGAIN. That’s what I do, I am not using same method to tell her that I have feeling for her. Instead, I just be friend with her best friend and at same time try to be friend with her. Understand her more. At least, I am not being hated by her, but being remember as one of her school friend.
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