There is actually one simple trick you can use when you’re not sure if a girl likes you or not, or if you’re getting lost in one of her “mind games”. I call it the “action compass”. Next time you talk to a woman, never mind her words – just focus on her action.

• If a girl tells you she loves you verbally but she’s being a bitch to you otherwise, then she?s just lying about her love for you. If she truly loved you, she shouldn’t be acting like a bitch, should she?
• If a girl whines about something stupid, then watch her action closely. Chances are she is just using the “something stupid” to get something else. Don’t be annoyed by the “something” she’s telling you about. Does her action show she’s trying to get attention from you? Or maybe approval?
• If a girl hesitates when you ask her out, even if she says yes you know you’re in trouble because her tone and body language shows she’s just being nice. So now, you know you have to work extra hard during the date to impress her. You will be unlike most guys, who will be VERY happy cause they’re blinded by their feelings and can’t realize that the girl is only going out with them to be polite.
• So a girl is calling you names and hitting you on the chest. But is she being playful about it? If so, then it doesn’t matter if she calls you the biggest jerk on earth! Her actual action shows she likes you – quite a lot.
• A girl agrees to go out with you but doesn’t show up at the date. Well, no matter what excuses she makes up after, her action still shows she’s a bitch!

With a little bit of practice, you can use this “action compass” to navigate your way out every time you get lost in one of her mind games or tantrums.

Source: Marius Panzarella

Love will always haunt us for every seconds of our life. Life without love is surely a boring situation. But, can love conquer them all? Will love will always bring you happiness? There will be a time where we will have to step back our feeling a bit. We are not retreating just taking precaution of the next step that we will make. How we can determine when is the right time to take a step back from lovey dovey feeling? So, here I will give some my method to determine when we have to take one step back and recalculate about our feeling.

1. I will re-think  my love for her when I realize that I don’t have enough capability to end up our relationship in marriage. Every woman in this world like to have beautiful and stable marriage. So as a man, we must think of our stability first. Our career, our life style, her life style and our financial management. If we have problems in these areas, we should re-think our lovey dovey feeling because we won’t manage to give her the happiness that she want.
2. We should re-think about our loving status when we having doubt of our commitment. There will be a time when we question ourselves about commitment. Some of us will always commit to work and some of us will always commit only to oneself (selfish). So, if you have this feeling, you should re-think you lovey dovey feeling.
3. Take a step back if you have problem in deciding who have the priority; family or lover. This is most common problem that people are facing. As for me, family will always come first no matter what. We should think ahead, if we choose lover, do you think they will stay with us forever? If family, they will always be with us no matter what our conditions. That’s why choose family first and then turn your lover into your family which mean take the lover as your spouse.

So, that is all I can think about. You have any? please let me know through comment. Thanks..

“Meeting you was a fate, Fall in love with you is my destiny, Marrying you is my happiness”