Childhood is a great time if we encounter a great memory. Sometimes it can affect the rest of our life. Childhood also can cause us certain trauma as the effect from bad things or bad memories. Such as phobia of being keep in small room or phobia to see sharp thing directly.

I have phobia/trauma which is cause by love rejection. Some people see childhood love is just simple and fun memory. It should not be taken seriously for what happen in childhood. It is not the same for me. The way my love have been reject still haunted me. Why?

Has someone reject your love directly to your face and said things that really hurts your feeling? I have this experience and I face it many times. Either you believe it or not, it’s up to you.

My first love been rejected when I am 12 years old. Teenager transition time occur between age 11 years old and 15 years old. At that time, I am a fat and chubby boy who fall in love with a slim and beautiful girl. I am not confident of myself but I still try to tackle the girl. I got help from my junior, a girl who is willing to help me. She always deliver my love notes to the girl. Until one day, my friend that help me come to me and tell me this, “She (the girl) don’t want me to disturb her again and she also said ‘hidung tak mancung, pipi pulak tersorong-sorong’” So, I directly ask the girl that I like, if what my friend said is true. She replied ‘yes’ to what I asked. It’s really left a deep hurt mark in my heart.

“I am single person? How about you?” This type of conversation can be used to tackle a girl that you like to know more or get hook up to. They are many pro individuals teach lonely people how to tackle a woman or man with many and various of ways. But in usual case, not all methods work for everybody. That’s why I like to tell you a secret how to tackle a girl in three easy steps. Although I am just a newbie in love material, but this three easy steps that I’ll let you all know are proven to be effective and successful. Why? Because my friends use these techniques and got success with their relationship.

What are the steps?

1. Bravely walk to the person that you like and ask her name (if you don’t know yet) and tell her your name (because not everybody know you). Talk to her about yourself such as what you do and what you like to do in free time. Also ask her the same thing; what she do for living and what she like to do in free time. Continue the conversation as you really interested to know her more.. ask more about her but nor the too personal thingy. What personal thingy? You ask her about her salary, her car, her lovers and her family status.

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In some moment of our life, we can’t deny that we admired someone else. Not the one we love right now. I said this because I have this experience. I love someone for 13 years, but in that same period I also adore someone else. Not only one, but more than that. I am definitely not a playboy. But this is not a story of that…

Obsession, can be define as liking someone for some criteria. As an example, girl who always been ignored by her family, will tend to find someone older who are nicer and caring as a replacement of fatherly image that she can’t get from her family. That’s why we can see some trouble teenagers will go out with older persons. Or, in other case.. in easy word.. in my case.. I can be categorized as nice people, caring and understandable. I always care about my friends despite their gender. In my school life, there is one moment where a girl become obsess with me. It’s not that she follow me everywhere I go. It just that she suddenly hate me whenever I spoke to other female friends. This is happen because, for one week before, I always talk to her about anything, making jokes and laughing together. When I suddenly less talking to her at the next week, she became mad at me. After asking with her other friend, I realize that she got a feeling for me. I never intend to seduce or whatever. That’s why we must always observe people around us and see their action toward us. It somehow can give you a bit of hint,s how people around you react on your actions and how you should react to them. …read full articles of "Obsession or Love?"

This happen to everybody, only the different is either you succeed or not. Most people will fail on first love. Why is that? Because we tend to act immature, childish and unexpectable. We only thought of our love to them, but not how they love to us. As example, I like this girl so much, I have crush for her. I send her flowers everyday and put it on her desk. I am even not asking her opinion of that, I just go with my cowboy style. When she reacted to it, then I know, she not even like me. She said something harsh that hurted my feeling so deep which make me unable to see her face ever again.

It’s not coward, it’s understanding of human being when you feel you are annoyed to other people. If you have common sense, you won’t bother her with same method AGAIN. That’s what I do, I am not using same method to tell her that I have feeling for her. Instead, I just be friend with her best friend and at same time try to be friend with her. Understand her more. At least, I am not being hated by her, but being remember as one of her school friend.

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